GRIEVE WITH SENSE (EP. 2)

 

We've always had big dreams and most of them if not all had our mother in the picture. 

But when our mom transitioned, it shook the core of our dreams and it seems like all those plans and dreams have crumbled completely.

We were a bit scared to dream big dreams again.

We mean we made plans, we had big dreams and imagined a great future WITH our Mom.

But with her departure, we didn't see the need in dreaming big dreams anymore. 

When God would just toss it aside sooner or later on without our permission?

Why bother?

Let him just do what he wants.

That's how we felt.

But the Holyspirit began to speak and remind us,

That we have got to get to a level where we say-

"We are okay with God coming in and changing our plans completely"

Now this isn't only to those who are grieving but those who even aren't.

This is because, we all make plans and dream dreams but let us tell you something, 

God is the biggest surpriser ever! (Surprised?)

So God is not telling us not to dream or make good plans, He is simply saying-

"Just take note that your dreams and plans may NOT necessarily come through like YOU planned it.

I would most likely surprise you."

And we should be okay with that, because whatever God has planned out is ALWAYS a million times better than what any of us could want to dream of in a lifetime.

So yeah, he surprises us and we are learning and trusting to be okay with him doing that.

This is also how to grieve with sense.

In God's Grip,

TaiKeh Twins.