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Different types of consolers EP 2:

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  3. ANALYZERS: These type of people analyze the events of that day and draw up conclusions that ties the transition of the loved one to something. Most times, it is VERY annoying to stay in the same space with these set of people because they often say things that would trigger extreme grief and sadness in the hearts of the bereaved.  Try your best to avoid these type of people.   Personal Thought: "Ms./Mr. I-too know, we know you love to analyse things but please try to empathize. Your profound analysis may not be the best thing the bereaved needs at the moment. It's not everything you analyze, be calming down okay" 4. SILENT ONES: These set of people see your WhatsApp status, Instagram posts, Facebook Posts and the likes about the transition of your loved one and do not say a word, like NOTHING.   Personal Thought: " Hmm, May Jesus not be silent on your case o." See you in the next post by God's grace. In God's Grip, TaiKeh Twins

DIFFERENT TYPES OF CONSOLERS EP1

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    Hello YOU! Today we would be talking about the different types of people we've encountered during this season of our mum departure. Learn and be blessed! 1. SHOUTERS: When they hear the news of the transition of your loved one, they start shouting at the top of their lungs. For example, when we informed one of our mum's friends. As soon as we broke the news to her, She shouted, grabbed us and squeezed the lives out of us, you needed to see how we were scrambling for oxygen.  She was crying so hard  and yes, we were fighting so hard to hold back our tears. Ever since, we decided that meeting people one-on-one to inform them was removed from our options.   2. INTERVIEWERS/JOURNALISTS: These type of people ask soo many questions at once like:  How did it happen?, Was she sick before?, Is it true what I heard? What are you going to do now? etc Unfortunately, these people are asking questions to satisfy their OWN curiosity without thinking of the pain it is ...